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    What married Chinese women do on holidays in Thailand

    Post  The Great Splendini on Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:10 pm

    So I went on vacation with the girl from the office and her friends.

    One male friend, 3 female friends.

    All around 30. I'm guessing they're all married, but not sure.

    So what do they desperately want to see?

    Strippers. More specifically, female strippers. More specifically, European female strippers.

    And what do they do in this bar? Get lap dances and feel them up and get really horny doing it.

    Am I old-fashioned or is there something wrong with this picture?

    I went to strip clubs with other male friends in high school. We never went with girls. And if we had girlfriends, so what? We were fucking 19. But 30 year old women away from their husbands feeling up women in tittie bars? WTF?

    Is this what I have to look forward to if I get married to a Chinese woman? Her going on trips to Thailand to feel up other women?

    And is everyone bisexual or what?


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    Post  Psioncy on Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:16 pm

    You went on vacation with chinese coworkers?

    Strippers or no, that's got to be pure hell. WTF were you thinking?

    Though I know what you're saying. A lot of chinese have told me about going to vaca in Thailand and watching strip shows. It's all the rage apparently.



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    Post  The Great Splendini on Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:20 pm

    Oh, I guess because they don't have strip clubs in China.

    So it's something they've never seen before.

    But married women getting horny over other chicks doing lap dances is normal?

    Why? What do you mean about colleagues?

    Only one was a colleague. the others were her friends.

    One of her friends had an incredibly pretentious English accent. She spoke like Prince Charles.

    And she fucking hated me the minute she saw me. Acted like she didn't want me there.

    So I didn't hang out with them the entire time.

    But yeah, never again with colleagues.

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    Post  Psioncy on Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:26 pm

    My ex fire island GF loved strip clubs.  I mean, I like them ok, but it's not really a big deal.  After an hour or so I actually feel bored.

    Yeah, some of my adult chinese students have told me about going to Thailand to see strippers cuz they can't do it here.

    I've heard that you can get strippers in china. Heard.  I mean, it's easy enough to get prostitutes I can't walk two blocks in SLT or Houhai without getting a dozen sex worker offers), so how hard is to get a stripper?  Just pay the whore to dance, surely she won't give a fuck.  

    One of my students, female, told me about going to thailand with her husband and watching dudes bang drums with their dongs.  She was flushed talking about it too.

    I think I could probably bang a bongo with mine....  maybe not a giant steel drum though, I mean enough to make it reverberate.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:26 pm

    Silkywave, did you ever go to Thailand to watch a tittie show?

    Did you ever munch a carpet?


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:30 pm

    I guess watching is one thing.

    But the girl was getting hot and heavy with the stripper.

    Then again, maybe she's been doing threesomes with her husband for a long time, so it's no big deal.

    Personally, I can't stand my woman messing with anyone else.

    I probably wouldn't let my wife go on a trip without me.

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    Post  Psioncy on Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:32 pm

    Yeah I knew a chinese couple like that.  He was always wanting his wife to grind with other guys at the bar, got off on it.  I never partook though cuz I thought it was weird.

    I'm the same as you.  If I'm serious about the girl, i can't stand to have her getting touchy-touchy with other dudes.

    Chicks would be totally ok though.  Laughing 


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:37 pm

    most guys would be happy if their girl swings both ways.

    i'm old-fashioned. i like it straight up with one girl.

    i met a thai woman. her husband had another girlfriend. eventually he convinced her to let the other girl in their bedroom. he basically was sharing his wife and his gf for a while.

    the wife agreed only to try to save the marriage and make her husband happy. not because she was into the kinky arrangement. but eventually she couldn't stomach the situation and got a divorce.

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    Post  Psioncy on Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:39 pm

    yeah I've seen this in china too.

    What happens if a chinese guy gets successful is he takes a mistress and demands his wife accept it.

    No woman ever will though, not really.  Consequences will crop up down the road for sure.

    Even when I lived in Egypt, where polygamy is legal, my landlord took on a younger second wife.  His long-time wife was fucking PISSED.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:43 pm

    you lived in Egypt? that's a story for another day.

    yeah, i think there's a reason some of these tittie bars have names like "Lucifer's".

    maybe it's because they break up marriages.




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    Post  The Great Splendini on Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:52 pm

    about rich chinese guys having mistresses, that's another issue.

    but my point is this. i learned from this trip that there's probably a LOT of women out there who have repressed bisexual tendencies and curiosity about the same sex.

    maybe they should have fun with other girls when they're in their teens, get it out of their system, and then settle down with a man and put the other girls behind.

    to me, if my wife is with another man or another woman behind my back makes no difference. betrayal is betrayal.

    actually, when i was 20 and with a married woman, a guy wanted to kill me. but it wasn't her husband. it was a friend of her who found out about it. he hated people cheating because his own wife was cheating on him with another woman. and this guy was like 300 pounds and 6 feet 10. And he wanted to kill me when he saw me with his friend.

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    Post  Psioncy on Thu Feb 13, 2014 3:14 pm

    I thought that's what college was for.  In uni, almost half the girls I knew (which granted were few) were into carpet munching, but just as a phase as it generally turns out.

    If your woman is middle-aged and lesbo tended, that might well be cause for concern.


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    Post  silkywave3 on Fri Feb 21, 2014 9:33 pm

    The Great Splendini wrote:Silkywave, did you ever go to Thailand to watch a tittie show?

    Did you ever munch a carpet?

    Yes, I am 30+, but I am not married. I dislike sex perform.
    I think really hot sex comes from pure true love.

     Neutral 
    Though today on the plane, I watched a married man for a long time and obviously he found my staring eyes and looked back.
    But he has 2 kids and his wife is there as well, embarrassing.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Fri Feb 21, 2014 11:16 pm

    but silkywave,

    do most of your female married 30+ friends go to strip clubs?

    are most of your female married 30+ friends interested in other women?

    are 80% of women bisexual or what?

    it just seemed pretty odd to me how all these married women were so fascinated with these strippers.

    i went to strip clubs when i was in high school. but we were horny as hell and weren't getting laid.

    if you're getting laid, what's the point?

    or are they all in loveless, sexless marriages?
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    who knows, human being' desire is bizarre

    Post  silkywave3 on Mon Feb 24, 2014 5:59 pm

    The Great Splendini wrote:but silkywave,

    do most of your female married 30+ friends go to strip clubs?

    are most of your female married 30+ friends interested in other women?

    are 80% of women bisexual or what?

    it just seemed pretty odd to me how all these married women were so fascinated with these strippers.

    i went to strip clubs when i was in high school. but we were horny as hell and weren't getting laid.

    if you're getting laid, what's the point?

    or are they all in loveless, sexless marriages?
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    Post  The Great Splendini on Mon Feb 24, 2014 8:31 pm

    awww come on silkes.

    try to explain.

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    Hmm my thought

    Post  silkywave3 on Tue Feb 25, 2014 12:39 pm

    1. the married women after so many years sex, they are so horny, so they develop sex peeking desire;
    2. they know they are not perfect women, so they want to see how perfect body women do sex and learn from it, and to discover the secret of sex;
    3. yes, indeed, the strippers are super hot, nobody can control the curiosity towards them. If you see the movie <magic mike> and listen to what the people say in the movie, you will understand the secret of strippers.


    In Macau, there is the same kind of performance.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Tue Feb 25, 2014 1:55 pm

    silkywave3 wrote:1. the married women after so many years sex, they are so horny, so they develop sex peeking desire;

    sorry, that makes no sense. unless what you're trying to say is that a marriage becomes sexless after a while so they're horny.

    silkywave3 wrote:
    2. they know they are not perfect women, so they want to see how perfect body women do sex and learn from it, and to discover the secret of sex;
    I'll tell you how perfect body women do sex. You don't need to go to a strip club. The more beautiful a girl is, the more she just lies there like a fucking dead fish. Not that I've had a million girls, but I was with a girl who did modelling once and it was the worst.

    This is as ridiculous as a Western guy going to see Chinese male strippers because he's insecure about his junk. It's never going to happen in a million years. Your body is good enough. Learn sex like riding a bike. Through practice. And put some effort into it.

    silkywave3 wrote:
    3. yes, indeed, the strippers are super hot, nobody can control the curiosity towards them. If you see the movie <magic mike> and listen to what the people say in the movie, you will understand the secret of strippers.


    In Macau, there is the same kind of performance.

    I can understand the curiosity towards stripping since you don't have it in China. But men don't generally like to look at other naked men unless they're GAY. I understand now that women are different. They need to compare their bodies to other women. And especially western women.

    It's all bullshit anyway. Who cares if another chick has slightly bigger boobs than you? 90% of sex is chemistry anyway, not the body.

    All this stripper shit is bullshit.

    But thanks for the insight into a Chinese woman's mind.

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    Post  silkywave3 on Tue Feb 25, 2014 4:37 pm

    According to my experience, sometimes more sex, more horny.

    People only listen to their instinct rather than your theory. Why not talk these to your female colleagues to check whether they laugh at you?  cyclops 


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Tue Feb 25, 2014 4:55 pm

    because she won't tell me what she's thinking.

    you're a stranger, so you can talk more openly.

    more sex, more horny. ok.

    basically, let's ask a very simple question. these women are all married.

    now, do they tell their husbands they went to tittie bars to feel up other women on their holiday?

    and do their husbands care?

    and let's turn it around. if you're married and your husband goes on holiday and goes to gay bars to watch other men dance and feels them up, would that bother you at all? or would you think it's perfectly normal and that all he's doing is keeping himself in a state of sexual arousal?


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Tue Feb 25, 2014 4:59 pm

    silkywave3 wrote:
    People only listen to their instinct rather than your theory.  

    yeah, we don't we just go around killing every time a murderous thought enters our mind if life were as simple as following your instincts?


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Tue Feb 25, 2014 5:01 pm

    anyway, the fact that they're all traveling without their husbands is a red flag right there.

    most of them probably have shit marriages.

    happy couples go on holidays together.

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    Chinese people are not sincere towards marriage

    Post  silkywave3 on Tue Feb 25, 2014 5:10 pm

    It is a half public fact.
    And that is 80% the reason why I am not married.


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    Post  Psioncy on Tue Feb 25, 2014 7:29 pm

    I think Pi is half correct here. Women justify things indirectly. They're horny, but rather than admit that they're horny, they instead say "I want to go to a club and wear something sexy, just cuz it's fun" or "I think I'm gonna take a tropical vacation without my husband, just to relax." When in true fact they are seeking an affair.

    NOT saying this was Silkes motivation. People do travel for other reasons. Plus Silkes is single, so it doesn't even matter in her case.

    I disagree with him on the "dead fish" thing. I like dead fish. There's nothing worse than a women moving all around and trying initiate a different sex routine than the one I am. Just follow instructions, dammit!


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Tue Feb 25, 2014 9:03 pm

    silkes, you're not married so you can screw around? there's nothing wrong with that. in fact, people who like to sleep around should probably delay marriage. have fun in your 20s and even 30s if you still need to get it out of your system. but marriage is marriage. at some point, you have to stop.

    there was a chinese woman i met. she was married, had a daughter. then she found out her husband was sucking dick. marriage ended. and she ended up having to shut down a successful business because the marriage was causing complications.

    when you're married, sex isn't just sex anymore. it's intertwined with every part of your life.

    and betrayal is betrayal. i'm watching 666 Park Avenue now and all these couples are having affairs. and then the karma gets dished out and they die mysteriously. these shows tell you how God's mind operates. breaking marriage vows is not a joke.

    there are couples with "open marriages" and who get into threesomes and stuff. i would never venture into that territory. i think it inevitably leads to problems. and i really can't stand someone i care about sleeping with someone else. but maybe i'm old-fashioned.

    but this girl, i'm not exactly sure what she's doing or why she's doing it.

    she's married. she flirts with me at the office until eventually she invites me on vacation with her friends and her husband not there. next thing i know she's feeling up a stripper. i don't know. maybe she went on that holiday to completely let loose, with me, with the stripper and with anybody and everybody.

    but nothing happened between me and her anyway. i went because i love the beach and the sea.

    but i'm staying away from her from now on.

    it's a little too much fucking adventure for my liking.




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