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    my boss is a lying sack of shit

    Post  The Great Splendini on Wed Dec 03, 2014 8:27 pm

    sent her an email.

    she replied.

    the fucking double-speak in this email would make Orwell cringe.

    that's how scary it is.

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    Post  The Great Splendini on Wed Dec 03, 2014 8:42 pm

    so i'm fucking shoving MY double-speak up her ass.

    NEVER reveal what you're truly thinking motherfuckers.

    makes you WEAK.

    and it's DOG EAT DOG out there.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Wed Dec 03, 2014 9:06 pm

    I have the utmost respect for you. You're doing a good job.

    Double-speak translation: Bend over and take it up the ass, pigfucker!


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Thu Dec 04, 2014 6:36 pm

    i went ballistic in the office today.

    i called my boss .... get this... A LIAR!

    and she's so dopey, she managed to laugh it off.

    and insisted that she's HONEST.

    fucking poker-face chinky ass motherfuckers

    how fucking dare them pull the wool over my eyes.

    and get this.

    at the end of the outburst, she's like "it's good that you're getting it out of your system".

    ha ha ha

    now you know why i'm still here.

    you don't know what you're missing motherfuckers


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    Post  eggraid on Thu Dec 04, 2014 7:48 pm

    What's the beef then?

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    Post  The Great Splendini on Fri Dec 05, 2014 8:31 am

    the place is full of problems and bad decisions.

    yet they blame YOU for not doing enough to adapt.

    rather than change anything, they make you feel like your work is not good enough.

    and they start telling you "you should do this, you should do that" and write reports.

    it's all a bunch of fucking stupid chinese politics.

    things never get fixed at upper levels and you're supposed to do hoops to adjust.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Fri Dec 05, 2014 8:36 am

    they're always trying to fucking blame you and make you feel like shit.

    it drives you nuts after a while.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Sat Dec 06, 2014 6:51 pm

    i had a total fucking meltdown at work.

    like classic "laowai goes nuts in china" shit.

    calling my boss a fucking liar.

    i went totally ballistic.

    outside in front of everyone.

    they didn't fire me !!!!

    ha ha ha ha ha

    fucking years of pent-up anger and frustrations coming out at once.

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    Post  Psioncy on Sun Dec 07, 2014 12:07 am

    Right, they don't fire you. They just keep digging at you with the same bullshit, while feeling superior because they maintained composure.

    As if that's all it's about. All the lying and scumbaggery non-withstanding.  

    I'll toss my two-cents in for what it's worth.  Like how taking some time off wouldn't be a bad idea.  Either repair the ties somehow or extricate yourself so you don't have to live under that silent grudge of his.  It'll hang there like a noxious cloud, and they'll find little ways to take it out on you, until you reach meltdown stage again.

    Or suck up whatever shit you have to until you've got the finaces to move on, and then blow that taco stand.  Fighting with chinks in chinkland never works out well.  I mean, you can get a moral victory and leave them with a real bad aftertaste, but that's about it.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Sun Dec 07, 2014 8:29 am

    Oh, the meltdown happened in front of a lot of people.

    They lost face in front of a whole bunch of people.

    So now they're playing it strategically safe. They want me to ride out the contract, after which they'll sack my ass anyway.

    I'm hesitant to change jobs because these places are all fucking carbon copies of each other.

    He's insistent that i'll see it his way next semester.

    But i won't.

    This culture has unresolved issues up the yin yang. Bad decisions upon bad decisions.

    So either you go into all kinds of contortions to adjust and drive yourself mad in the process or they have to lose face and admit their system doesn't work. Which they will never do.

    Nah, telling them to fuck themselves out in the open is good for the soul. What else can you do?



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    Post  The Great Splendini on Sun Dec 07, 2014 8:30 am

    if my family wasn't crazy, i'd just go home for a few months.

    but i can't.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Sun Dec 07, 2014 8:33 am

    their way of doing things is incredibly fucked up and non-workable.

    and they all KNOW this.

    because you'll catch them admitting it secretly off guard.

    but then they revert back to taking the high ground and make you feel like you're not doing your job properly.

    fucking arrogant aholes.

    admit when it's your fucking fault. take fucking responsibility.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Sun Dec 07, 2014 9:02 am

    actually, it might work in my favor.

    they might just fuck off and leave me alone.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Sun Dec 07, 2014 10:10 pm

    i need to fucking quit.

    by all these fucking jobs are fucking carbon copies of each other.

    it's like fucking xerox.

    you move from one place to another and the same negative patterns repeat themselves over and over.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Sun Dec 07, 2014 10:40 pm

    is mexico a shithole?

    may get an interview for a position in mexico.

    the good thing about it is it's 2 hours from san diego.

    and near the coast.

    but is it a violence-infested shithole?

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    Post  Psioncy on Tue Dec 09, 2014 12:59 am

    The Great Splendini wrote:i need to fucking quit.

    by all these fucking jobs are fucking carbon copies of each other.

    it's like fucking xerox.

    you move from one place to another and the same negative patterns repeat themselves over and over.


    I worked for 6 primary employers (and a ton of side work) over 13 years there, and it was the same bullshit with all of them.  To varying levels, but basically the same.

    And the retarded decision making, that usually revolved around placating some boss's nonsense ideas, and had next to nothing to do with what worked for staff or students.  More often that not it worked counter to that.

    Mexico sounds like fun.  Being able to visit San Diego on the odd weekend would certainly take the edge off.

    You're probably mostly safe from the perpetual civil war they're in from drug cartel rivalvries, since it's got nothing to do with you, a gringo.  And if you want some drugs, they should be a heck of lot cheaper.

    Hmmmmm.....    scratch   Cheap drugs, tequila, caliente chicas   cherry

    It was fucking 5 degrees Farenheit this morning.  What am I doing freezing my ass off in the middle of the land that time forgot?

    Seriously, I'm stuck in a Stephen King novel.  NOTHING has fucking changed here.  I stole my mom's car while she was crashing and went for a little joyride yesterday  afro   I hadn't driven for 10 years, so that was fun.  Saw two other vehicles in total while I was out. The radio stations still play the same songs they did when I was in high school.  No songs after the early 90s, no hip-hop or anything remotely modern on the dial.  There are no new buildings, no new nada.  It's all *exactly* the fucking same.  And it's freaking me out more than a little.  It's like time froze when I left here, and it all went into complete stasis.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Tue Dec 09, 2014 5:16 am

    China is total and utter Matrix-land.

    The people at the top of the food chain are EVIL.

    They DELIBERATELY make BAD policies that undermine work environments.

    And then everyone is left to micro-manage and point the finger at each other to try to adapt to a system that doesn't work.

    It's maddening.

    But I went totally nuts. And I think I frightened them.

    So it might buy me some time. They will leave me alone, at least for a while.

    And next year, I need to make a move.

    Mexico feel through. I cancelled the interview. I'm guessing it's not that safe, though. But Mexican food (fucking tacos for breakfast!) and proximity to the sea and the US was enticing.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Tue Dec 09, 2014 11:29 am

    chinese men are always jealous and trying to put spokes in your wheels at work.

    with women it's 50/50. depends if she's a bitch.


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    Post  eggraid on Wed Dec 10, 2014 11:38 pm

    Psioncy wrote:
    The Great Splendini wrote:i need to fucking quit.

    by all these fucking jobs are fucking carbon copies of each other.

    it's like fucking xerox.

    you move from one place to another and the same negative patterns repeat themselves over and over.


    I worked for 6 primary employers (and a ton of side work) over 13 years there, and it was the same bullshit with all of them.  To varying levels, but basically the same.

    And the retarded decision making, that usually revolved around placating some boss's nonsense ideas, and had next to nothing to do with what worked for staff or students.  More often that not it worked counter to that.

    Mexico sounds like fun.  Being able to visit San Diego on the odd weekend would certainly take the edge off.

    You're probably mostly safe from the perpetual civil war they're in from drug cartel rivalvries, since it's got nothing to do with you, a gringo.  And if you want some drugs, they should be a heck of lot cheaper.

    Hmmmmm.....    scratch   Cheap drugs, tequila, caliente chicas   cherry

    It was fucking 5 degrees Farenheit this morning.  What am I doing freezing my ass off in the middle of the land that time forgot?

    Seriously, I'm stuck in a Stephen King novel.  NOTHING has fucking changed here.  I stole my mom's car while she was crashing and went for a little joyride yesterday  afro   I hadn't driven for 10 years, so that was fun.  Saw two other vehicles in total while I was out. The radio stations still play the same songs they did when I was in high school.  No songs after the early 90s, no hip-hop or anything remotely modern on the dial.  There are no new buildings, no new nada.  It's all *exactly* the fucking same.  And it's freaking me out more than a little.  It's like time froze when I left here, and it all went into complete stasis.

    That's quite predictable. I think anyone would see it that way after coming home from any "exotic" or different country, especially China that changes so fast.

    It's now that you have to pick up hobbies. Like tons of them and enjoy having a shitload of hobbies. Otherwise, you'll go insane, like you mentioned. Things i do except for work:

    -Train birds
    -Grow habaneros + make chilisauce of various tastes
    -Brew my own beer
    -Drink beer with friends
    -Drink beer with girlfriend
    -Buy cool stuff for my apartment
    -Watch American Horror story
    -Play world of warcraft

    Home is where you get creative. Start using your imagination. That's my suggestion.

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    Post  The Great Splendini on Sat Dec 13, 2014 6:51 am

    training birds? that sounds cool. tell me more about it.

    and brewing beer too.

    yep, good suggestions. thanks.

    i will try to get a creative hobby going.

    i cook for myself because i try to avoid the slop they're serving out there, but it take a lot of time.

    and these past couple of years have been really stressful for me.

    i'm stupid for staying in china so long. i should have left a long fucking time ago.

    and who are you? one of the poods?


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Sat Dec 13, 2014 6:58 am

    i've had a few meltdowns in china.

    but they literally drive you mad.

    so it's good to get it out of the system and take it out on them from time to time.

    puke back the insanity on them.

    and then update your CV.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Sat Dec 13, 2014 7:04 am

    there's a lot of really nasty people around me the past couple of years that have really upset my psychological balance.

    like people constantly fucking looking over their shoulders when i walk down the street like plotting to kill me and shit.

    never felt so unsafe in china before.

    but i'm in a bad part of town.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Sat Dec 13, 2014 7:56 am

    i've developed more of an edge lately.

    if someone on the street looks at me crooked, i stop and stare them down and dare them to come and dance.

    i think i've scared the shit out of a couple of guys.

    but if you're not aware of your surroundings, someone can fucking pounce on you at any time.


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    Post  The Great Splendini on Sat Dec 13, 2014 7:56 am

    i've developed more of an edge lately.

    if someone on the street looks at me crooked, i stop and stare them down and dare them to come and dance.

    i think i've scared the shit out of a couple of guys.

    but if you're not aware of your surroundings, someone can fucking pounce on you at any time.
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    Post  Psioncy on Sun Dec 14, 2014 7:55 am

    Wow, job/girlfriend/hobbies.  Aren't you Mr. Fucking Cooly McShittogether Cool

    I have hobbies.  Today I put clothespins on all my fingers and freddy kruegered the cat with them.

    I made some soup too.  

    After weeks of scarfing down pizza and tacos, I realized I wasn't gonna lose any weight that way.  Now I'm soup and salad til the scale registers a human weight again.  I might be a while...  but hey, I got all the time I've ever needed.  I could just stay here and do nothing but exercise and eat soup for the next six months if I want to.  And I might just do exactly that.

    What I gotta do is take this opportunity to sober up and get fit.  Then I'll find my next adventure.  Patience.  I have to pay the price of recovery, and then in time I'll be back in some asian turdbowl, drink in hand boogeying like Travolta and scoring poon hand-over-fist once again.  farao


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